Being Firmly Committed

In this episode, I share our nine‑day trip that became far more than a vacation—it became a reset button for our marriage and a living lesson in what firm commitment really looks like.

The journey begins in Maryland, serving alongside our sons and a group of young adults in a community project called “Shop the Block.” , “There’s a different kind of closeness that comes from serving together,” a line that captures the spirit of the trip’s beginning.

From there, we wander through Amish country, where the simplicity and intentionality of the Amish way of life sparks reflection on how easily modern life pulls us away from what matters most. Their route continues through early church history sites in Palmyra and Kirtland, where the sacrifices and steadfastness of early Saints deepen our appreciation for conviction and devotion.

The trip also brings moments of awe—like braving the icy winds on the Maid of the Mist at Niagara Falls—and moments of tenderness, like watching Dave stand proudly in front of the Progressive Insurance headquarters where he spent 37 years building a career and supporting their family. “He was committed. Deeply. Quietly. Consistently.”

These experiences lead me into a heartfelt exploration of the difference between being committed and being firmly committed—especially in marriage. I reflect on the cultural shift toward self‑focused relationships, the challenges we have faced (including the grief of losing Jessica), and the daily choice to turn toward each other rather than away.

I also share insights gathered from couples we've  worked with:

• Holding an eternal, long‑term perspective
• Letting nothing stand in the way of prioritizing the marriage
• Offering grace through life’s phases
• Keeping excitement alive through intentional dating
• Dedicated
• Being “all in”
• Communicating honestly, even when it’s uncomfortable

Ultimately,  firm commitment isn’t flashy—it’s steady, daily, and sacred. It anchors us. It shapes how we love. And it carries us through.

I invite you, my listeners,  to reflect on their own lives:
Where are you firmly committed—and how does that commitment shape who you are becoming? 

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